Grandma's Spooky House

Apr 28, 2010

Best Birthday Ever!



Thank you
. THANK YOU. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Bless you!


Best Birthday Ever!

Turning 70 usually isn't cause for much celebration, especially if your birthday is on
April Fool's Day. I certainly did not expect anything unusual on March 26th, the Friday my Doug had planned a special date to see the flowers at Temple Square in Salt Lake City. He was sad to see the weather turn cloudy, cold, and windy. When we finished a few hours at theFamily history library, I visiting with my old friend and college roommate Kathy Harmer (who works there), and Doug learning how to use the new Family Search Program, we rolled over to the temple grounds. Brrr!! Are we having fun yet? Few flowers were out to brave the nippy temperatures. Scrap that plan. I didn't even try to take a single photo with my Canon. Doug was visibly disappointed. My cute husband loves flowers as much as I do.

Next: Church Museum of Art and History for a special exhibit I had previously checked out while he was doing research. We read all the personal accounts of adversity, challenge and conversion-- all twenty or so-- and enjoyed the great black-and-white photography. Then we headed out for another sure winner in hot or cold weather-- Deseret Book Store! Nothing like books and Cd's for a happy shopping experience.

Five o'clock. Dinner reservations at Market Street Grill restaurant. Visions of crusty sour dough bread, steaming clam chowder, and gourmet fish platters fill my mind, summoning growling tremors in my stomach. A nice ending to a pleasant afternoon with my sweetheart.
We arrive right on time and are escorted to a room at the front. But what is this? 6 guests seated at a large table with menus in front of their faces??? Dare I think.... could it possibly be....???

SURPRISE!!

(I've been told I'm a big mouth. What do you think?)









Grinning faces, beloved children from faroff places like Sacramento, Bakersfield, Phoenix,and good ole Orem, Utah, 40 miles down the freeway from Salt Lake City. Craig, Deborah, Becca, Cathy, Liz and her husband Lane! Cathy had flown in a night early since that was the only flight she could get. She rented a hotel room so she wouldn't spoil the surprise, and walked around the town all day Friday waiting for 5:15 dinner! Craig and Debs had arrived early and had to kill some hours as well. Becca too had flown in one day earlier than her family, who were arriving the next night at our place so we could watch their four munchkins during their much-needed holiday! That meant Matt was driving without any help 13 hours from Phoenix with 4 young children (including a 2-yr-old!)


Touched and brimming with emotion, my appetite fled. Nothing could be better than to be in the presence of five of our children (and one spouse) again, together in one place. How humbling to know what it cost in time and money to be there!!! Words were totally inadequate to express my gratitude and delight.

It was the best, most fantastic, nicest, humbling, thoughtful, loving, kind, spectacular, unexpected, delightful, and astonishing experience!

I could not seem to find time to choose something from the menu; I just wanted to look at our children, these fine people in our life that meant so much to us! They were right there. In living color! Sitting with us at the table. Laughing and joking. It seemed like a dream.

SURPRISE #2!

--a hard-bound book with family photographs artistically arranged of each family and the grand-children. There were written memories and tributes. (Was this my own funeral?) We giggled and guffawed over pictures and comments. Then I cried when I read the stories and looked at the pictures. Obviously this book represented priceless time and effort gathering photos and writing down memories, etc. It was priceless-- a sacred record, our own "small plates" that recorded shared times. I felt terribly spoiled!


Finally we ordered dinner-- cioppino for me, same as Craig, but I felt too excited to taste much. I opened a present from Doug-- a macro lens for my camera. Didn't expect that either! When we finished eating and ordered dessert, I was given a cupcake with a candle that Liz had brought which said AGELESS (--Liz is full of surprises.)

The perfect dessert.

The night was so fun I didn't want it to end. The good news was that Deborah, Craig and Becca would be spending a couple nights at our home before flying home, extending the fun for us.



NOW, how do you say Thank you for a memory like that?

I wonder what 90 will bring. Sting?

7 comments:

Grapefruit said...

If Sting comes to your 90th, I will seriously be upset. I've been inviting him all these years to mine and he NEVER shows!

That night was the greatest ever. It was so much fun to watch you be surprised and just to be together. You are such a wonderful mother. Love you lots Mom!

Grapefruit said...

And great pics by the way, are these from Lizzie's camera? It's so fun to seem them all. Thanks for posting them!

Unknown said...

What a fun reunion! You have such thoughtful kids, I'm afraid your younger sister got the raw end of her deal... lately we can't seem to get all together if our lives depended on it! Maybe we should start planning early for her 70th! I bet it was just wonderful to visit and it probably flew by too fast, but I'm sure lots of memories were relived in those few days!
Happy Birthday (a little late)!
-Cindy

Fairy Godmother said...

It was an awesome memory for all of us...altho I'm not loving the pix you posted of me! Nice angle! Whatever...wasn't about me...but it was about celebrating you...who you are and how very much you mean to all of us! We'd do it all over again tomorrow, but logistically speaking, it might well kill Becca...so it's a good thing we have some time to plan and recoup before the next surprise! LOVED it! And nothing is better than seeing people we love be happy and feel love. PERFECT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Wendi said...

I loved seeing these pictures of your kids coming to surprise you. What a fun birthday treat! :)

The Ewers said...

Hi Barb! What a wonderful birthday spent around loved ones. I can't think of anything better! You look fabulous for 70 years young! Looking at pictures of your family brings back so many fond memories growing up. You all radiate such warmth and love.
Now, let's see some pictures with your new macro lens!
Happy Belated Birthday.
Summer

P.S.- Thank you again to you and Doug for helping me with my secret picture project for Becca. You guys are the best. Please tell Doug I say 'hello'!

Liz said...

What a marvelous memory, and you captured it so well. You deserved every minute of happiness that we could muster that night. It was a delightful surprise! I am SO happy that all who could came. Hooray for birthdays.

Sting, huh? Well, now, that's a tall order! How about a really good rendition of Chopin from some local talent?